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12.23.2008
一百分的情人
一百分的情人

每個人也希望找到一百分的情人,尤其是我們剛接觸愛情的時候。年輕的時候,我們更希望找到一百分的人,縱使我們遇見了九十分,但是我們可能會錯過了,情願等待一百分的出現。又或許碰見了一位,然後遇見更好的時候便放棄了手上的。
因為年輕,我們覺得還有無數時間和機會,所以我們不介意放棄八十、九十分的人。認為總有一天會遇上了一百分。於是我們不介意錯失機會,也不介放棄身旁的那一位。
可是隨著年月漸長,我們遇不到一百分之餘,競爭力也下降了,然後我們便減低了要求,希望得到九十分。只是那時候我們找到了九十分,但對方也可以心有所屬。又或是根本遇不到九十分,只遇到了八十、七十分。
又過了數年,吸引力進一步下跌,我們又再修改了要求,六十分也可以。可是我們又不到六十分,只碰見了五十分。害怕孤獨的我們,最後選擇了五十分的一起終老。然後一直暗暗後悔那年沒有接受九十分。
或許我們遇到了一百分又怎樣?對方也可能要求一百分的人,又或是早已被別人攻佔了內心。既然人人也要求一百分,對手便自然很多,我們又能守得穩嗎?一百分本來就可遇不可求,強求一百分,或許我們只會失去更多。
幸好有些人早知道一百分難得,所以遇上了九十分、八十分也不介意,願意和對方一起。懂得欣賞對方的優點,學習和對方相處。就因為沒有把要求定得太高,因此更容易滿足和接受對方的不足,幸福也不知不覺得地留在附近。
如果我們一生只會遇到一次九十分,可是我們只希望一百分。也許我們最後得到的,和最初要求的相差很遠。要是我們知足,懂得欣賞另一半,是不是一百分又有甚麼重要呢?
以為往後的會更好,只會使我們不珍惜現在的,只會使我們錯過現在的。然後在未來我們又遺憾那時白白錯過了機會,錯過了幸福。
愛情從來不是找尋一百分,而是接受對方不是一百分。一百分不一定是適合我們,最適合我們也不一定是百分那位。如果我們只是七十分,但對方是一百分,對方又為甚麼要選擇我們?
愛情的悲劇往往是我們太貪心,要求完美,要求一百分,然後又後悔當初放棄了那位專一的,關心自己的。有趣的是,就算我們知道最後會後悔,也不願在最初接受那個九十分。如果抱怨我們遇不到,不如抱怨我們太貪心。
求學不是求分數,戀愛也不是求分數......


ps : 無心機温書的時候, 有個friend 比左首歌我聽 呂方同張學友的 李香蘭, 真系無介紹錯

今日又見到有首歌. 十分好
http://hk.youtube.com/watch?v=47Q2QyymMD8&NR=1

之前睇無線, 有套movie 叫二人三足, 有首歌, 好好聽, 不過系太sad, 叫做. you are my sunshine. 不過可惜的系, 有好多人唱過呢首歌, 但系都唔系我想要的版本.





10.27.2008
psychology + 估
the release of psychology mid term result is definitely faster than i thought. but i appeared at an odd way.it is just like a ordinary file in the webct, unless someone told me, i wont recognize it at all. the result is not that good. i am sure that i am among the second lowest within all minor students. the pass score is 50 and the recommended pass score is 60. i just got 52. and out of twenty , i just got 10.8 or even less. luckily , we were told that there is a retest on this first test.. and i know i will sit for it in no time.... and it seems that a lot or almost all will take it, because she recommend us to do so... strange stuff. but anyway i am given a chance to retest.


估下個股市: range should be among -200 to +150. but it is quite likely that it will rise in the coming week, but sure not for long.

should we act? 有賣貴. 但無買錯 大 概唔會錯得去邊..

最近好想知中國的建設行業. 個個都吹到中鐵建, 中交建好好. 事實上又系唔系呢.. some research may tell

10.21.2008
whats that?
i thought i could make it. but i failed. when i arrived at the station. i was about to leave her. then the MTR announcement came, it said the last train to yau ma tei has left, and the trains that are still in services are only two, one to choi hong , the other one to north point or eventually to chai wan.

for me i would rather leave with her instead of other MTR stations, and so we did . walking around for buses or mini bus. that luckily enough i could find one to Mongkok, and so i leave her. there were only three at first,, but suddenly , there were so many ppl.

the reception there isn't so good, may be they dont have that many emitters there. it is lousy. it took me almost an hour to go to Mongkok. then i have to look for another public transportation. i saw red mini bus trepassing Kwai fong , thats why i am pretty sure that i can find one. eventually, i found one around langham place. and leave.

once more, i arrived home at about 2 am. it is the third time in this week. first time on wednesday, second time on thursday and third time this one. i have to say it is unprecedental.


damn , i hate those haleluya, it ruined the whole thing. there were nuts. for the first time, i know that TST has so many nuts. there were ppl, i wonder from chinese, chanting haleluya all night to one person. and saying thanks you to god. and then they were singing chinese song. man, what the hell are they doing.


were sth to be told ? whats that?

another weeks has just passed.